
It’s Christmas time. There’s a chill in the air outside, but houses are warming up with the sights, smells, and tastes of the season. Christmas songs, candy, and cookies (my favorite) are tempting us at every corner. Around this time of year as a kid, Mom would make a a slew of cookies of varous shapes, sizes, and colors. But her iced sugar cookies were always the headliner.
I loved these cookies so much that a few years ago I began to make these because I lived in Los Angeles, and my folks lived in Atlanta. And I had to have those cookies for eating and sharing during the holidays. I had helped Mom make them a few times in my past and I think I picked up some tips from here on how to make the sugar cookie delights.
This year I knew I had to make them as part of my remembrance of Mom. As many of you know, she passed away on October 27 this year. So like in years past, I got out the index card box she gave to me years and years ago, and pulled out that famous sugar cookie recipe.
What struck me this year was the handwriting on that card. It wasn’t just words and letters to a recipe. Yes, it was all of those things, but even more, it was in Mom’s handwriting. For some reason, it struck me that Mom some years ago had scratched out dozens of recipes for me by hand. And I’m so glad she didn’t get the computer out to do this. There’s something about handwritten notes, recipes and letters that say more than the words they contain. They say that someone really took the time to say something to you.
I was thankful when Mom gave me the recipe box as a gift some years ago, but not as thankful as I should have been. She put her love into that gift. Every time I reached for that card to figure out how many eggs and how many tablespoons I needed, memories of Mom hit me like a ton bricks. Her handwriting, like everyone else’s, was unique. She put family history down on index cards for me. And now that she is gone, that little box of recipe cards is something I cherish. I know now that she must have been very excited about that gift. She wasn’t giving me anything that could be bought at Macy’s or ordered from Amazon. It was part of my family heritage.
This realization that handwritten notes are more impactful than their digital counterparts made me think about my fifth grade trip to Washington D.C. I had a chance on that trip to see the founding documents of our nation with my very own eyes. Those documents were written by hand. Those documents were amazing, and seeing the handwriting of the Founding Fathers was incredible.
This makes me think that I should do more handwritten notes, because it is becoming a lost art in a post-modern world where digital modes of communication dominate. Maybe I should write out my blogs and then scan them in? Who has time for that, right? But if we do take the time to use ink and paper, I believe we will think more about what we say and write, and ultimately communicate it better to the person we are connecting with.
Merry Christmas, and be sure to write a handwritten note on your greeting cards this week.